Three Things No Editor (or Other Living Person) Can Guarantee about Your Book

Three Things No Editor (or Other Living Person) Can Guarantee about Your Book

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I’m living in a time of wild, beautiful uncertainty in my life as I wait for when baby Milo will decide it’s time for him to arrive in the world.  For a massive planner, early-arriver, rule-follower like me, being pregnant is an exercise in trust, patience, and letting go.  I am not mastering this exercise particularly well, I must admit.

But this season is giving me lots of compassion and a bit more understanding for people who cannot have control over their lives – those in oppressive situations, those with chronic illnesses, those with young children.  It’s also helping me see my “need for control” tendencies in lots of folks, particularly writers.  For people who are creative by nature and will, we writers sure do wish we could control a lot more than we can.

When Desire for Control Makes Demands from Others

I see this desire most often with editing clients. It usually manifests in a few ways:

What Authors Can Consider Instead

Rather than asking your editor, or your mom, or your best friend, or that publishing whiz you’re considering paying a lot of money whether your book will do well, ask yourself these questions:

The truth of the matter is that only you as the author can decide whether a book is worth the time, money, concern, and effort that publication takes. No editor – or friend or mentor – can tell you whether you want to do this, and honestly, that’s the bottom line.  Do you want to do the work that publication involves, especially since there are no guarantees?  If you do, then great.  Surround yourself with people who get it, who support you, and who can give you sound wisdom.

If you don’t, then walk away with no regrets.  There are lots of ways of walking through this world that are important and hopeful and helpful.  Maybe writing isn’t your way, and that’s just fine.

Just don’t foist this burden onto the shoulders of other people because it’s not fair to them, and it really won’t tell you what you need anyway. Only you can make this choice.  I trust that you’ll make the best one for you.

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